Slut is a healthy word. The problem with the label slut is all about socio-political structures, it's 6 year old nonsense about the idea that you own someone else and you have a right to say who they should (want to) have sex with, because you're insecure. Slut just means a person who enjoys having sex - and you might as well enjoy it, because you are going to have sexual energy running through your system every day for the rest of your life. If you despise that part of yourself, you're going to be unhappy. Learn to enjoy sexuality, because it's the only wise choice here. Sluts are sacred.
There are all sorts and shapes of people, but these three stereotypes stand out as showing up again and again:
* In the stripper setting, bimbos make the most money and are the most popular. They are the ones with big hips, a big butt and big tits. They often have a little more fat around the middle, and are not very smart. These are the A3f's. A3fs need to be someone who is very focused, very compassionate, very tolerant, and doesn't need constant intellectual stimulation - because toddlers need these things. You often find pictures of this stereotype in kitchens, and in relation to much younger partners that they can take care of and nurture. Shadow characteristics include a desire to be abused, insulted, degraded, beaten. A healthy a3f is a bimbo.
* The next category many people find very sexy is the supermodel, she is a little underweight, obsessive about her diet, tall and graceful and wears nice clothes and good heels ... this is the A2f. People like her because the social status that comes from being seen with her. She has a reputation for being a little aloof, and she can get away with it because everybody wants to go out with her.
* The third type is the cute playful little girl who pounces on you, dresses up in costumes, and wants to do wild stuff. She's the A1f. When she dresses up, she goes for cute: cosplay outfits or bunny ears, and get away with it. You put an A3f or A2f in a schoolgirl uniform, it doesn't work so well, but one of the cute little A1fs really make it work. This cute tiny playful intense girl is a powerful archetype. She can sometimes be dismissed as just cute, or not taken seriously because she's a lot like a kid.
A3fs often end up being sexual, they're very physical and involved with children and just not bothered so much by all the sex stuff. A2fs usually end up being sexual because everyone finds them hot, so they end up learning to deal with it. A1fs are the ones most likely to have repressed their sexuality. Each of them have their problems, and each of them have a stereotype that they fit into.
This isn't a nice, neat explanation like the LPA's, but it is the beginning of one. Sexuality, and within that fetishes, correlate directly with the LPA's.
Angel, 2014-08-11
